In conversation with Sinitta Monero

Q. 1 - Introduce yourself.

Hi, my name is Sinitta Monero. Mother, screenwriter, and lover of all things creative.

Q.2 – What is your job title?

Screenwriter, producer, and co-director of my own indie.

Q.3 – Who looks after the kids when you are working?

Nursery.

Q.4 – How long did you take off work after having your baby?

Six months, which I don’t recommend for any first-time parent. 

Q. 5 – Would you say that you have a good work/life balance?

I would say, I understand what I am working towards, which means I have created a balance that works for my daughter and makes me content as a parent. I do industry work across a 4-day week and the long weekends are for us to go to the park, drink babyccinos and bake gingerbread men. 

Q. 6 – Are you job sharing or working flexibly?

Freelancing flexibly. 

Q.7 – What do you think is the hardest part of being a working in media/film/tv industry and being a parent?

Sustainability, oddly enough, I didn’t realise how much the odds are against us until I had my daughter. Unsociable working hours, networking after 6pm and industry events that run past midnight. Throw in the cost of childcare and it becomes very overwhelming, quickly. There is a give and take that you will learn to perfect once you become a parent. This will help you when deciding about your own career path and what you want to do next. 

Q. 8 – What are your tips for any other women out there wanting to have kids and keep a career in film?

The industry isn’t going anywhere. Don’t delay having a baby, but be prepared for the sacrifices you will have to make once you become a parent. What are you willing to compromise on? What are non-negotiables for you? For me, 12–14-hour days on set are a thing of the past. I have taught myself to find the balance in sacrificing time for an opportunity and making sure my daughter doesn’t miss out on quality time with me. It’s been a struggle, but I am finally in a place where I have found a balance. That suits us both.   

Q. 9 – Any advice for anyone about to return to work after maternity?

Don’t be afraid to ask for what you want. Whether that be an early finish, a late start or 4-day week, your job should work for you, in the same way, you work for your job.  

Q. 10 – What advice did you wish someone had given you?

It’s not you, it’s not personal, it’s just business.

No one talks about surviving the no. As creatives, it’s important for us to remember it’s not you, it’s not personal, it’s just business. Give yourself the space to process and work through your rejection, in a healthy and constructive way, and remember, the comeback is always greater than the pushback.  

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